Communication Faults: 100 Communication Mistakes People Make – Part 2
February 25, 2010 by obm · Leave a Comment
Last week in Part 1 of this Communications Mistakes series, we looked at Lack of Credibility and Disrespectful, here we look at mistakes 21 – 40.
21 – 30 Disrupts Flow
- Too positive; pushes mood
- Too fast, adrenalized, pushes mood
- Half-duplex (can’t hear when speaking)
- Inattentive, easily distracted
- Information-reactive (responds only to information, not person or feelings)
- Literal, can’t get gist easily
- Keeps making point even after other person got it
- Responds with non sequiturs
- Interrogates, peppers with questions
- Overly concerned, too significant
31 – 40 Lack of Clarity
- Trite, boring, old, useless
- Pat answers or quotes, walking cliché
- Confusing, overly complicated
- Vague, rambles, repetitive
- Mishears, mislabels, assumes
- Consumes information versus assimilating it
- Dogmatic, righteous, singular
- Linear, two-dimensional, flat information
- Overloads with too much information
- Too quick with advice
Use this checklist to strengthen your effectiveness or as part of your professional development. As you use this list, you will discover that each item leads to a person’s heart and soul. If one’s eyes are mirrors of the soul, communication is a mirror of the mind.
Stay tuned next week for No Warmth and Weak Listener.
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Communication Faults: 100 Communication Mistakes People Make – Part 1
February 18, 2010 by obm · Leave a Comment
What mistakes are you making when you open your mouth?
Every day, as a coach, a parent, a manager or a partner, we communicate with others in order to achieve an outcome or work on a specific issue.
At Coach U and Corporate Coach U we have compiled a list of 100 common communication faults that people experience. Instead of overwhelming you with all 100 at once we will be publishing the list in 5 installments of the new 5 weeks.
Use this checklist to strengthen your effectiveness or as part of your professional development. As you use this list, you will discover that each item leads to a person’s heart and soul. If one’s eyes are mirrors of the soul, communication is a mirror of the mind.
1-10 Lack of Credibility
- Overpromises results or benefits
- Overstates facts; hypes
- Lies, misrepresents; is dishonest
- Sneaky, not forthright
- Eager to please, needs approval
- Pretentious, tries to impress
- Sounds needy, desperate
- Insincere-sounding; not real
- BS-er, full of it, full of themselves
- Justifies, overexplains
11-20 Disrespectful
- Critical, harsh, judgmental
- Insensitive, no compassion
- One-ups, downplays efforts
- Ignores what was said
- Patronizes, parents
- Sexist, bigoted, intolerant
- Digs, undermines, barbs
- Inappropriate comments or humor
- Stingy with praise or support
- Hard sell; tries to convince or trick
Stay tuned next week for Disrupts Flow and Lacks Clarity.
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